Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Sunday, May 24, 2009
5.24.09 Union Power
This week notice if you can separate the Reality form the apparent!
Sunday, May 17, 2009
5.17.09 Leadership Power
Are you being a leader? Notice this week if you are!
Power and Possibility—Inventing a New Kind of Time by Laurel Sheaf, Landmark Forum leader
And who’s to say what’s “properly forward” or “unconventionally backward”? We, and almost all cultures in the world are shaped by the notion of a past, a present, and a future. The main presumption of existence is that life is one thing after another. Time, whether marked by the tick of the clock or the majestic expansion of the universe, so permeates our senses, so defines memory and expectation, that it is elusive by its ubiquity. One can’t even be sure whether time is an abstraction, or as real as rocks. But one thing seems clear to the average person: Time is a one-way, no return, take-your-lumps deal. Hence the mild surprise with the question whether time has to go one way and not the other, and whether the universe could not run backward perfectly well …*3
Past, present, and future, is a conceptual way of speaking about time and being. Our existence is a past, present, and future kind of existence, yet, past, present, and future aren’t immutable facts. But before we go further, consider how our current notions of time actually play out. Instead of three kinds of time, it’s more the case that it really splits into two: a past/present and a present/future kind of time. We are never really in the present—mostly it’s as if we’re floating between the past and the future. We are localized in the present, yes, but our overlay—our relationship to the present—is never just the present itself, it’s either the past/present or the present/future. Of the two, the pull invariably is for the past/present.
We can see this past/present pull everywhere—especially when we have a particularly good or bad experience. If it’s a bad experience, like getting bitten by a dog, let’s say, we’re prone to be wary of dogs (no matter how much we may subsequently learn about dogs being friendly). If it’s a good experience—some great success, receiving a special acknowledgment—we log that into our future, too. We try to remember the steps that got us there, hoping to capture the specifics for future use, or as Tom Robbins amusingly puts it, “we become frozen in that glad ice, turning ourselves into living fossils for the remainder of our existence.” Whether our experiences were good or bad, instead of locating what happened in the past, we put those past memories and the decisions we made about them out in front of us—into our future. Our future then becomes shaped, and filtered through those decisions, limiting what’s even seen or imagined as possible.
When I was a kid, I owned one of those magic slates. You drew on it with a plastic stylus, and when you’d lift the plastic sheet and all the marks you’d etched would disappear—a clean slate would appear each time. (Would that it were so easy with our lives.) Since the past is registered and etched and filed into the future, it appears as if it is the past is what determines the present, but it isn’t. What actually does have the influence is the future we’re living into. It is the future that shapes who we are being in the present. Think about it. What inspires us, and what moves us, or what stops and defeats us, is essentially due to how we see the future in front of us. We don’t have much experience, maybe none, at taking the past out of the future. But if the past was taken out of the future—either by putting it back where it belongs, or by virtue of recognizing it for what it is—it would no longer have the impact and influence it once had. We would have a lot more freedom—way more room to move. Or in Robbins’ words, “Living fossils [would] begin to unfreeze themselves from the glad [or bad] ice and come back to life.”
When the past is no longer calling the shots, the question becomes: “If I weren’t my past, who would I be? What would be possible?” The ways we know ourselves, what we can and cannot do, what’s possible or impossible, would no longer be a given. When we leave the past behind us and stand in the future, the possibilities for our lives multiply exponentially. It does not merely change our actions or give us new choices, it gives a completely different quality to life in the present.
Possibility is an element of temporality. Starting from possibility reverses the flow—it becomes a future/present pull. This future/present pull changes the game entirely. Even at its earliest stages, possibility leaves us with power and freedom. Altering the temporality of things is not just a matter of time—it’s a matter of the quality of our lives. Kurt Vonnegut said in his last book (albeit tongue-in-cheek): “I think one of the biggest mistakes we’re making has to do with what time really is. We have all these instruments for slicing it up like a salami, clocks and calendars, and we name the slices as though we own them, and they can never change—‘11:00 AM, November 11’ for example—when in fact they are as likely to break into pieces or go scampering off as dollops of mercury. Might not it be possible, then, that seemingly incredible geniuses like Bach and Shakespeare and Einstein were not in fact super-human, but simply plagiarists, copying great stuff from the future?”
*1 Dennis Overbye, “Remembrance of Things Future” (from The New York Times), from Brian Greene, Editor, Tim Folger, Series Editor, The Best American Science and Nature Writing 2006, p. 181.
*2 Kevin Kelly, Out of Control: The New Biology of Machines, Social Systems, and the Economic World, New York: Perseus Books Group, 1995, p. 408.
*3 Charles Petit, “Time Trajectories,” review of The Arrow of Time: A Voyage Through Science to Solve Time’s Greatest Mystery, by Peter Coveney and Roger Highfield, San Francisco Chronicle, 6/30/91.
Sunday, May 10, 2009
5.10.09 Mother's Day Power
Pianista
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Professional & Powerful Presentation
Congratulations for your professional and powerful presentation ("Being Powerful and Prosperous in Challenging Times") at our first Miami Rescue Mission Human Resource Professional Conference. You did an amazing job!
Thank you for reminding us that finding balance in our lives allows us to enjoy our freedom and prosperity. Two years ago when I met you I was not convinced that we needed balance in our lives. I am a professional career oriented person who loves to be busy all the time, with many projects in my hands and always needing more than 24 hours in a day to accomplish them.
Since then the Lord has helped me find balance among my career, work and family. Your presentation was an excellent reminder for all of us. You impacted the audience, received one of the highest scores and several co-workers want to talk with you about stress reduction.
On behalf of Reverend Ronald Brummitt, President of Miami Rescue Mission, his wife Mrs. Marilyn Brummitt, Community Development Director, the human resources staff, the volunteers for this event and myself, thank you very much for your participation, support and partnership.
May God continue blessing your personal life and professional career with more success.
Martha L. Ayerdis, MBA
Human Resources Director
Miami Rescue Mission and Broward Outreach Centers
Monday, May 4, 2009
5.04.09 Friendship Power
I was fortunate this past weekend to experience the 1969 Christopher Columbus HS 40 year reunion that took place in Miami. Fifty graduates (out of 125) and their spouses attended the 3 day event.
The reunion connected me once again to how lucky I was to attend Columbus High and learn from and have friendships with guys who are alive with freedom, abundance in many ways and play in this world in light rather than darkness.
I had so much fun listening to everyone's stories, dancing to the music by Bay, ab & Tom, and playing golf with Steve, Dave, Mark, etc. I was present to everyone's mastery and contribution for the first time in many years.
So I want to apologize to all my friends for not being awake at Columbus and throughout the years. Thank you God for giving me access to a quiet mind and all my friends at Columbus.
Gonzalo, thank you for leading the "Tribe" and for this awesome reunion.